How To Buy a Strap On

By Lacy

When going shopping for your first strap-on dildo, it can be a bit overwhelming but once you find the right one it is a lot of fun. Lets cover the basics for those that don't know what a strap-on is. This is a dildo that is attached to a harness. You put it on around your hips. This makes it easier for you to make love if you are in a lesbian relationship, but this is not all that it is used for. There are several uses-especially when men feel the need for two penises. Finding the perfect strap on is a personal decision.

There are plenty of reasons to buy a strap on. If you are in a heterosexual relationship, it is useful too. Many men that are not homosexual enjoy anal pleasure due to their prostates and you as a woman can provide that kind of pleasure with a strap on. If you enjoy gender bending they can be helpful, too. So, what is there to know about the strap-on harness? There are two different styles of the actual harness part and there are jocks and thongs. The thong harness has a more thorough attachment which wears much like a thong. The jock harness wraps around your hips and then there are straps that connect together to stay in place. The thong harness has a piece that goes in between the cheeks of the wearer's butt, so it really depends on what you are more comfortable wearing. Also, you need to think about whether you need something that is waterproof or you are content with something that you won't be using in the shower or a nice hot tub. Waterproof is always better because it also provides ease with cleaning.

The most important part of purchasing a strap on is selecting the perfect dildo that can go with it. It can be a very personal decision on how large or small the toy will be. It is best to buy a toy that has a flared base so that there will be no chance of the toy popping out of the harness. If you want flexibility, it might be best to purchase a jelly dong. Of course there are plenty of women out there that enjoy firm dildos, too. When it comes to that, it is up to your preferences.

There are also some different types of strap-ons that you can get nowadays. There are vibrating dildos that you can get with a strap-on. So, if you and your partner prefer to have a vibrating pleasure during sex then that would be a perfect avenue to explore. It sounds overwhelming, but once you get to know what really gets you off it becomes the easiest thing to purchase.

We have a few final tips for strap-on usage for when you finally have selected one: Please remember to use proper lubrication, buy some toy cleaner, and always be patient when breaking in a new one. Adjustment is necessary because strap-ons usually come in a one size fits most and of course we all have different body types.