How do I get my partner interested in pegging? 

This topic seems to come up over and over again.  How do I get my partner interested in pegging?  It seems there is a stigma around the act of pegging both from men and women.  Men who want this done to them are afraid to ask their significant others for the pegging experience.  Some guys feel it would be an admission to homosexual tendencies. Sometimes the fear that their lover would feel that this request would be the one to send them screaming for the hills so to speak. 

Facts are that if people were open and honest with their feelings especially in the bedroom, life would be wonderful.  We do however live in the real world and have real world issues and fears.  Pegging is not a trend that has gained much media attention.  Curious couples first view pegging on a DVD or in a tiny blurb in certain magazines that tend to cast pegging as "scary" or only for extremely adventurous couples.  Pegging is far from "vanilla" sex but really isn't a very extreme sex act.  Getting the courage too try new things in bed is a tough prospect for many couples who have been together for some time.  Relax.  Open communication is the best for all relationships in and out of the bedroom.

Why is pegging so taboo?  Here are some frequent concerns:

"If I ask my wife to use a strap on on me..will she think I'm gay?"

You are only gay if you'd like to have sex with men.  If you do not want to have sex with men then you are not gay.  Pegging being linked to homosexuality is really a stretch considering oral sex between a man and a woman would rarely be viewed as homosexual activities. Pegging is simply the way a woman can stimulate the prostate and give her man that type of pleasure.  She will also experience new sensations and this can bring you both closer together.  Asking for new experiences in bed can bring up far too many insecurities among both partners.  Be careful not to stir up any bad feelings.  Trying new things should be about gaining knowledge, expanding and greater understanding of pleasure for both of you, which should bring about a whole new level of pleasure to your sex life.

"Will my husband think I am absolutely nuts if I ask to use a strap on to have anal sex with him?"

That will depend if your husband thinks you are nuts already.  Seriously, guys are programmed differently from women when it comes to sex.  Guys enjoy the changes that can be simply made to "spice up" the sex life.  Tell him how much you'd like to try new things in the bedroom and let him know how much it would turn you on.  You might be surprised at his reaction to new things.  He may even suggest pegging himself!!!   Some guys do have fantasies of being dominated.  Pegging can be a role reversal and power reversal.  Although pegging does not have to be all about being dominated there is definitely room for the male role reversal.  Pegging is as versatile as your mind can make it.

Most times pegging is an act which will need sometime to work up to.  Usually a casually placed finger, followed by some small plug or dildo, then a strap on.  Pegging isn't as easy as "Hey Honey... I bought this strap on which is supposed to be great for pegging!", then he responds with a.... "Hmmm...all the guys at work are talking about their wives fucking them in the ass with strap ons...  This will be wonderful!"  Anal play of any kind should be done with caution and slow... especial with straight guys.

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