How To watch Porn with a partner

By Lacy

Watching porn with your partner may not have occurred to you before, but it can be a fantastic experience that includes the both of you. Some women may be put off by this, but with some communication they can warm up. The first thing you need to do is talk to her about it. A lot of people have different reactions to this, but hopefully she will be interested in trying it out. If she agrees to it, there are a lot of benefits.

The benefits of watching porn together vary, but all are amazing. The first benefit is being able to share this with her. It is great to include her with something so personal, because a lot of the time women do feel left out when their boyfriends or husbands watch it. They worry that they aren't doing enough for you and let their insecurities take flight. If you involve her, she will have no reason to be insecure and have a lot of fun while you're at it.

Another benefit of watching porn together is the fact that you can learn what one another really likes. There can be a lot of unrealistic positions and acts that go on in porn, so make sure she knows you really don't expect her to do a lot of these things (though it may be nice if she did once or twice). After discussing watching porn together you should include her in the selection of what you are both going to watch.

By doing this often, you end up adding more of a cathartic nature to sex than there already is. This promotes genuine communication, togetherness, and the alone time that you both really need to spend with each other. As long as you are sensitive to what she needs and don't try to force her into watching it with you--this will be a very welcomed addition to your relationship.

If you involve her in that part of your life, she will stop becoming insecure and jealous of all the time that you would be spending watching porn without her. As said in the beginning, when boyfriends or husbands spend time watching porn alone and ignore their partners it tends to cause a shock to her self esteem. You can make her feel loved and sexy just by asking her to join you and concentrating on pleasing her while you do so. You both can spend time learning new tricks that you may like to try or laughing at the things that you could never imagine doing in bed. Either way, it can be quite the experience.

There are a couple tips when it comes to watching porn, however. While some people are into the over the top screaming in porn there are a lot of people that get turned off by that. If that is a problem for one of you don't worry about it too much...just hit mute. That will allow for more communication between the both of you, anyway. Always make sure that both of you are into it because if one of you isn't it doesn't make for an enjoyable night. Never make the mistake of talking about how beautiful the porn women are to her because that may be cause for insecurities on her part.